Questions to ask your girlfriend

The little questions that make her feel seen — some silly, some sweet, all worth asking. Try guessing her answer before she says it; you might be surprised what you learn about someone you already adore.

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36 questions

  1. 1What's your ideal bedtime on a work night?
  2. 2How do you take your coffee?
  3. 3Are you a morning person?
  4. 4How do you sleep?
  5. 5Which chore do you secretly not mind?
  6. 6How early do you show up to things?
  7. 7What's your texting style?
  8. 8Your emoji personality?
  9. 9Toilet paper roll: over or under?
  10. 10What's your karaoke move?
  11. 11Where do you fall asleep first?
  12. 12Your strongest love language?
  13. 13How do you say 'I love you' without words?
  14. 14Best kind of hug?
  15. 15What makes you feel most cared for?
  16. 16What's your flirting style?
  17. 17Ideal amount of PDA?
  18. 18Ideal way to end the day together?
  19. 19Pick a small romantic gesture:
  20. 20After a hard day, you want...?
  21. 21Your idea of a perfect date?
  22. 22Our song should be a...?
  23. 23Your favorite thing about being a pair?
  24. 24You get one superpower:
  25. 25Zombie apocalypse — your role?
  26. 26Stranded on an island, you bring...?
  27. 27Your reality-TV genre?
  28. 28Pick a world to live in:
  29. 29If you were an animal?
  30. 30You're a drink — which one?
  31. 31Pick a gloriously useless talent:
  32. 32Your villain era would be...?
  33. 33Time machine — where to?
  34. 34Your theme-park ride?
  35. 35Board-game night — you're the...?
  36. 36Your toxic trait (said lovingly)?

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