Deep questions to ask your partner

The questions that actually get you talking. Use them on a slow evening, a long drive, or whenever you want to feel a little closer. Even couples who've been together for years find something new here.

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36 questions

  1. 1Your strongest love language?
  2. 2How do you say 'I love you' without words?
  3. 3Best kind of hug?
  4. 4What makes you feel most cared for?
  5. 5What's your flirting style?
  6. 6Ideal amount of PDA?
  7. 7Ideal way to end the day together?
  8. 8Pick a small romantic gesture:
  9. 9After a hard day, you want...?
  10. 10Your idea of a perfect date?
  11. 11Our song should be a...?
  12. 12Your favorite thing about being a pair?
  13. 13What do we do best as a team?
  14. 14Our love-story energy?
  15. 15A tradition we should start?
  16. 16When we disagree, what helps most?
  17. 17A surprise free evening — we...?
  18. 18What makes a house feel like home?
  19. 19Our ideal double-date?
  20. 20In five years, I hope we're...?
  21. 21Best way we spend a long car ride?
  22. 22The nicest thing we do for each other?
  23. 23Biggest green flag in a person?
  24. 24What tiny thing makes you weirdly happy?
  25. 25If we could go anywhere tomorrow?
  26. 26Your dream home is...?
  27. 27Pick a bucket-list trip:
  28. 28How do you pack for a trip?
  29. 29A free Saturday, no budget — you'd...?
  30. 30A dream we should chase together?
  31. 31If we got a pet together?
  32. 32Your ideal way to see a new city?
  33. 33A language you'd love to learn?
  34. 34Where would you retire, ideally?
  35. 35Your ideal souvenir?
  36. 36What resets a bad mood for you?

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