Questions to ask your boyfriend

Get past the small talk. These are easy, honest questions that show you a new side of him — his habits, his soft spots, the things he never thinks to mention. See how many of his answers you can call.

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36 questions

  1. 1What's your ideal bedtime on a work night?
  2. 2How do you take your coffee?
  3. 3Are you a morning person?
  4. 4How do you sleep?
  5. 5Which chore do you secretly not mind?
  6. 6How early do you show up to things?
  7. 7What's your texting style?
  8. 8Your emoji personality?
  9. 9Toilet paper roll: over or under?
  10. 10What's your karaoke move?
  11. 11Where do you fall asleep first?
  12. 12What do we do best as a team?
  13. 13Our love-story energy?
  14. 14A tradition we should start?
  15. 15When we disagree, what helps most?
  16. 16A surprise free evening — we...?
  17. 17What makes a house feel like home?
  18. 18Our ideal double-date?
  19. 19In five years, I hope we're...?
  20. 20Best way we spend a long car ride?
  21. 21The nicest thing we do for each other?
  22. 22Biggest green flag in a person?
  23. 23What tiny thing makes you weirdly happy?
  24. 24You get one superpower:
  25. 25Zombie apocalypse — your role?
  26. 26Stranded on an island, you bring...?
  27. 27Your reality-TV genre?
  28. 28Pick a world to live in:
  29. 29If you were an animal?
  30. 30You're a drink — which one?
  31. 31Pick a gloriously useless talent:
  32. 32Your villain era would be...?
  33. 33Time machine — where to?
  34. 34Your theme-park ride?
  35. 35Board-game night — you're the...?
  36. 36Your toxic trait (said lovingly)?

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