Long-distance relationship questions

Distance makes the small check-ins matter more. These questions help you keep knowing each other between calls — what you're dreaming about, what you need, what you miss. A shared daily question is a tiny bridge across the miles.

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36 questions

  1. 1If we could go anywhere tomorrow?
  2. 2Your dream home is...?
  3. 3Pick a bucket-list trip:
  4. 4How do you pack for a trip?
  5. 5A free Saturday, no budget — you'd...?
  6. 6A dream we should chase together?
  7. 7If we got a pet together?
  8. 8Your ideal way to see a new city?
  9. 9A language you'd love to learn?
  10. 10Where would you retire, ideally?
  11. 11Your ideal souvenir?
  12. 12What do we do best as a team?
  13. 13Our love-story energy?
  14. 14A tradition we should start?
  15. 15When we disagree, what helps most?
  16. 16A surprise free evening — we...?
  17. 17What makes a house feel like home?
  18. 18Our ideal double-date?
  19. 19In five years, I hope we're...?
  20. 20Best way we spend a long car ride?
  21. 21The nicest thing we do for each other?
  22. 22Biggest green flag in a person?
  23. 23What tiny thing makes you weirdly happy?
  24. 24Your strongest love language?
  25. 25How do you say 'I love you' without words?
  26. 26Best kind of hug?
  27. 27What makes you feel most cared for?
  28. 28What's your flirting style?
  29. 29Ideal amount of PDA?
  30. 30Ideal way to end the day together?
  31. 31Pick a small romantic gesture:
  32. 32After a hard day, you want...?
  33. 33Your idea of a perfect date?
  34. 34Our song should be a...?
  35. 35Your favorite thing about being a pair?
  36. 36What resets a bad mood for you?

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