Get-to-know-your-partner questions

You know the big things. It's the small, specific answers — how they take their coffee, where they fall asleep first — that make someone feel truly known. Here's a whole list of them.

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36 questions

  1. 1What's your ideal bedtime on a work night?
  2. 2How do you take your coffee?
  3. 3Are you a morning person?
  4. 4How do you sleep?
  5. 5Which chore do you secretly not mind?
  6. 6How early do you show up to things?
  7. 7What's your texting style?
  8. 8Your emoji personality?
  9. 9Toilet paper roll: over or under?
  10. 10What's your karaoke move?
  11. 11Where do you fall asleep first?
  12. 12What's your comfort food?
  13. 13Pick a late-night snack:
  14. 14How spicy do you like it?
  15. 15Your ideal pizza is topped with...?
  16. 16Pick a dessert:
  17. 17Your order at a café?
  18. 18Choose a cuisine for date night:
  19. 19How do you feel about leftovers?
  20. 20Pick a cooking-night plan:
  21. 21Ideal weekend breakfast?
  22. 22Your perfect Friday night?
  23. 23How do you recharge?
  24. 24What's on the TV tonight?
  25. 25Ideal vacation pace?
  26. 26Pick a rainy-day activity:
  27. 27Your ideal night out?
  28. 28Pick a hobby to try together:
  29. 29Your happy place?
  30. 30How do you like to move your body?
  31. 31Pick a couple costume for a party:
  32. 32What first made you fall for me?
  33. 33The hottest non-physical trait?
  34. 34My best physical feature, in your opinion?
  35. 35How do you love to be kissed hello?
  36. 36Our perfect night off?

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